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A small treat for St. Valentine's Day. My first time making chocolate covered strawberries. I forgot to put them on parchment paper, so I think the bottoms are going to stick to the plate, unfortunately. Better luck next time!
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I was about a month further along with Tony on St. Valentine's Day in 2011. Zach and I enjoyed dinner with my parents at the Knights of Columbus Valentine's Day dinner-dance that year.
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I don't go outside when it's cold. Except to the car. I didn't realize how much snow we got from that winter storm of historic proportions, until I opened the back door. The little slide looked so silly buried under all of that snow.
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This little man is a trooper. After a lot of thought, I decided to wean him. It was a hard decision, but he is 19 months, and I don't think he was getting much of anything from nursing (aside from comfort). He wasn't nursing much, mostly at night, which coupled with teething, was not making for a restful night for any of us. This pregnancy has me tired enough without the added strain of nursing him. I'm also trying to plan ahead and avoid the issues I had with pre-term labor last time. I don't remember how early it started (26 weeks, maybe?), but I couldn't do any kind of physical activity for long at all without having contractions that would go for a couple of hours. (In the end, he came early at about 37 1/2 weeks.) I'm praying that isn't a problem this time!
So last Thursday he nursed for the very last time. He asked to nurse a few times a day for the first couple of days, and cried in the evenings when I wouldn't nurse him to sleep, but after that he only asked once a day. Now he doesn't ask at all. It makes me kind of sad, but I try to remember that it's another stage of life. In six months I'll have a new baby to nurse. Right now I can enjoy snuggling him, and napping with him, without just being a milk machine. Last night he slept through the night without waking up asking for milk or water, which was really, really nice. I never thought I would wean him, and I am so grateful that it was such a smooth transition. God was good, and it definitely made it easier on both of us.


I cried when I weaned each of my babies, all about your son's age. More bitter than sweet, but I have found that a new relationship develops, and although different, is just as beautiful.
ReplyDeleteYour family is beautiful Jess - what a surprise to see 'you' on {phfr}. Your little boy is just precious - weaning is hard, but a Mommy knows when it's time. Trust those instincts and thankfully you have wonderful Mom's in your family who you can draw on for advice when needed. I really enjoyed your post!
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ReplyDeleteHappy Saint Valentines Day! Give Tony a kiss for me :) I loved your post, keep them coming!
Wow, I'm jealous of your snow. And your strawberries. I didn't make anything special for today because it's Lent, but it seems no one else I know had any qualms. I think I'll make something Valentine-y on Sunday to console myself.
ReplyDeleteYour throw-back Valentine's picture is sweet!
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